My boyfriend just texted me from the other room...

July 26th, 2008 at 9:02 PM

"Babe, where are you?"

Lol, I'm in the living room...

I can never go anywhere without having to ask or tell him where I'm going. I never knew living with someone was like living with your parents all over again.
But I can't even go outside without him asking what I'm doing out there. Oh gosh, haha.

Have any of you gone through this?

July 26th, 2008 at 9:06 PM

He always asks me if it's ok to go out and do something.

July 26th, 2008 at 9:06 PM

I think we're skipping a question, really.

July 26th, 2008 at 9:22 PM

not really i trust her and i barely ask her where she goes.
she is the one who does that though she always wants to know where i go and what i do when i am outside in details.

July 26th, 2008 at 9:32 PM

I'm like that sometimes, only when I don't trust them.

July 26th, 2008 at 9:35 PM

I couldn't deal. If I trust that little, they wouldn't even make it past the acquaintence level, let alone friendship. Loving relationship... right out. People close to me have to be brutally loyal with no exceptions. It's not arrogant or elitist... I offer the same in return. I think I earn and deserve it.

July 26th, 2008 at 10:22 PM

don't wantcha to find the crack stash

July 26th, 2008 at 10:48 PM

I'm pretty trustworthy of my boy.
He's usually out with friends, so I don't mind.
He still tells me that he misses me and stuff in front of them, so I have no doubts.
When he stops doing that though, I'd probably start to question things, since I'm paranoid like that.

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July 26th, 2008 at 11:04 PM

Cristian's daddy was the same way,so I was the same way back with him! I couldn't leave the house,unless I asked if it was okay. when he was in Mexico with his family, I still couldn't leave the house,but I did anyways,and only went places with my parents and my sister. I was the same way back with him,and I still am lol. I guess it's the trusting issue so far I have w him.

July 26th, 2008 at 11:23 PM

Boys I like don't like to seem controlling, strangely.

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July 26th, 2008 at 11:58 PM

That's when I broke up with him.

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July 27th, 2008 at 12:05 AM

I used to have a boyfriend that used to flip out and think that I was leaving him if I even went for a walk. I would find my shit outside on the step when I got home 5 minutes later...Fucking douche.

July 27th, 2008 at 12:11 AM

Originally posted by Erinana

That's when I broke up with him.

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July 27th, 2008 at 1:06 AM

He wasn't like this before though, and it's not a controlling or abusive jealousy, it's kind of like an attachment jealousy, I guess.

July 27th, 2008 at 6:48 AM

Sensing jealousy feeds one's soul.

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July 27th, 2008 at 3:52 PM

its called LDS
little dick syndrome

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July 27th, 2008 at 3:53 PM

lol.
wtf holly.

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July 27th, 2008 at 4:14 PM

he sounds like a desperado

July 27th, 2008 at 6:14 PM

i dont actually live with my boyfriend but im over at his house everyday. and if im not in his room he's like get in here. or where are you. or even hurry up. its almost like we live together.

July 27th, 2008 at 6:38 PM

ive gone through that with a couple past ex gfs

id tell them id be goin out for like a guys night basically and id get calls roughly two to three times an hour askin where im at and what im doing

granted we werent living together...but b/c of their constant needing to know and apparent lack of trust with me the relationships never lasted long

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July 27th, 2008 at 6:55 PM

Hmm :/ While I like to generally know where my boyfriend is to make sure he's alright, neither of us have to ask or tell each other where we are, where we're going, etc.

I think it's sort of wrong for him to keep tabs on you like that, but if it doesn't bother you then OK I guess.

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July 28th, 2008 at 8:48 PM

holly's just angry because she's a sif.

July 28th, 2008 at 8:51 PM

I'm a sif.

But really, Amber, if he's keeping tabs on you like that, and you don't like it, i'd just have a little chat with him to reassure him that you're not going anywhere. It seems like he has some sort of insecurity.

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July 28th, 2008 at 8:53 PM

Star Wars: Episode III - Revenge of the Sif.

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July 28th, 2008 at 8:55 PM

Mmm.

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