Am I fucking justified?

August 16th, 2008 at 12:11 AM

Okay, so here's the deal: I was with a girl for about half a year, and I was in love with her. Everything about her; even her fucking imperfections, because she meant so much to me. Then we broke up because I lost my job, which is ridiculous, but it is what it is. Anyway, I'm still in love with her, and she's trying to make me jealous and pissed and succeeding. The most recent thing she's done is talked about getting a restraining order against me for talking to her friends. And she yelled at one of her best friends for talking to me. Basically, what it boils down to is that I'm pissed as fuck for her doing that and talking about that shit. Am I fucking justified in feeling this way? Keep in mind that I still love her, but I hate her right now. (And yes; that's possible.)

August 16th, 2008 at 12:13 AM

Fucking bitches eh.

August 16th, 2008 at 12:17 AM

That happened to me. Youre just bitter. you'll get over it.

August 16th, 2008 at 12:18 AM

You mean your ex girlfriend tried to get a restraining order against you for talking to her FRIEND? That's what truly pisses me off.

August 16th, 2008 at 12:19 AM

No offe.... Ah fuck it. I can't say it without potential for offense. Truth is truth.

She's psychotic. I think you really don't need me to spell this out for you. Bad enough she looks to you to be a meal ticket, earn your own shit you know? You don't dump someone because they lose a job. But restraining order for visiting mutual friends? Good luck with that. They don't have those. Not to mention the thing about trying to make you jealous which suggests she's fucking nasty and hostile?

Time to work on unlove. You'd have to be some kinda dirty son of a bitch to deserve ending up with a girl like that.

Do better. Move on. Or regret it.

August 16th, 2008 at 12:22 AM

uhm,not really..

About what pisses you,I think she's not over you yet thats why she did that..

August 16th, 2008 at 12:24 AM

Originally posted by DanWagner

No offe.... Ah fuck it. I can't say it without potential for offense. Truth is truth.

She's psychotic. I think you really don't need me to spell this out for you. Bad enough she looks to you to be a meal ticket, earn your own shit you know? You don't dump someone because they lose a job. But restraining order for visiting mutual friends? Good luck with that. They don't have those. Not to mention the thing about trying to make you jealous which suggests she's fucking nasty and hostile?

Time to work on unlove. You'd have to be some kinda dirty son of a bitch to deserve ending up with a girl like that.

Do better. Move on. Or regret it.

August 16th, 2008 at 12:25 AM

The worst part is the harder I try to move on, the more I get pulled back.
It's like love quicksand. Get me a rope?

August 16th, 2008 at 12:30 AM

its pretty hard to move on,sometimes even if you think you did the feelings sometimes go back,

But hey in every hardships there's always a prize in the end.

August 16th, 2008 at 12:31 AM

If you raise your legs slowly in quick sand you won't sink.
From the looks of it you deserve much better. Moving on is the hardest part...but you will realize how much better off you are once you do.

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August 16th, 2008 at 12:33 AM

The thing is, she wasn't always like that. I didn't have a job for the first two months we were together and she never said anything. She can be a really good person when she wants to be. And yeah she's insane, but so am I. Maybe that's why I'm attracted to her; who fucking knows anymore? I sure don't.

August 16th, 2008 at 12:35 AM

You just need a good closure.

August 16th, 2008 at 12:35 AM

There is no rope someone can throw you unfortunately. Only thing there is would be logic. That might pull you out. Just stand back, view it objectively and think...

If this were happening to a friend of mine instead of me... what observations would I make, and what would I tell HIM?

Then maybe learn to heed your own advice. Don't go rebounding though. Lot of people myself included, made the mistake of sucking another girl in with the intent of using them to get over the past screw up. Doesn't work and ultimately trashes that girl who doesn't deserve to be victimized.

Just let your brain tell your heart what to do for once.

August 16th, 2008 at 12:40 AM

The problem is my brain is in my pants.

August 16th, 2008 at 12:45 AM

If that's all it is, that's kinda a quick fix. Be grateful you don't have heart issues. That's what damned near took me out.

Plenty of holes in the world though if that's what you're missing.

August 16th, 2008 at 12:47 AM

Originally posted by DanWagner

If that's all it is, that's kinda a quick fix. Be grateful you don't have heart issues. That's what damned near took me out.

Plenty of holes in the world though if that's what you're missing.

August 16th, 2008 at 12:47 AM

lol

August 16th, 2008 at 12:55 AM

Originally posted by DanWagner

There is no rope someone can throw you unfortunately. Only thing there is would be logic. That might pull you out. Just stand back, view it objectively and think...

If this were happening to a friend of mine instead of me... what observations would I make, and what would I tell HIM?

Then maybe learn to heed your own advice. Don't go rebounding though. Lot of people myself included, made the mistake of sucking another girl in with the intent of using them to get over the past screw up. Doesn't work and ultimately trashes that girl who doesn't deserve to be victimized.

Just let your brain tell your heart what to do for once.