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mafia 
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| August 16th, 2008 at 5:10 PM |
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When people try to bash me, they say shit about my son.
Yeah, I'm 17 with a 4 month old son. So what?
I'm not a stupid person, and yes, I deserve to breed.
Do you honestly think when you say that kind of shit I'm gonna drop everything, and give you the attention you want?
No.
Sorry, but just no.
I'm financially stable, mentally stable, and I can take care of him...Proof? CPS hasn't taken him from me, right? No.
I deserve my happiness, so stop trying to take it from me.
One day, my son will look back, possibly see shit like this, and think he was a mistake/accident and he wasn't.
I don't do drugs ('cept what I'm prescribed)
I don't pawn him off on people
i DO feed him, loser.
I have a job, douche bag.
Most importantly, I love him. All he needs is me, and all I need is him. So fuck off, loser. and stop talking about my son, when I haven't done shit to you...
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| August 16th, 2008 at 5:20 PM |
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Some people act like only retards get pregnant.
But it can happen to any girl. Accidents happen.
I <3 Juno.
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| August 16th, 2008 at 5:23 PM |
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Haha! I wasn't talking about your particular case, I was speaking in general terms.
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cristiansmomma
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| August 17th, 2008 at 12:06 AM |
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I know how you feel Cora. Alot of people think that alot of young moms are uncapable of taking care of kids.Some people can think that,but in reality,they do not know you. Don't tell them that you are a good mother,because they will think otherwise and only you know yourself and your son.
I have a friend who is 19. She got pregnant at the age of 12,and had her baby at 13.She is now expecting hr 3rd kid. When she was pregnant at 12,I thought she was a bad mom,but really,it made her change a whole lot. I thought maybe the father will use her,abuse her and all that stuff bu they are happily married,been married since she was 17.Just because they have kids at a young age,doesn't mean that they are bad kids,can't handle their kids and handle themselves. They live together in a 3 bedroom home,both have jobs,she works as a medical assiantant and registration at the hospital,and he's a 'own self' owner for construction and landscaping.
Just think the postives. If people are bashing you,then ignore it.They don't know the real you,or your son. As you said that your your son may feel that he was a mistake,don't let him think that. If he was planned,great. If he was a mistake,great too. It's all that matters to you on being the major resposabilty for your son. You are the mom,so thats all that really matters to him. Not to whoever is bashing.
And good luck at rasing your son. I am sure you are a good mom.
Edit- I was bashed on as well,but in real life. When I found out that I was pregnant,I was told that I 'may' not be a good mom,because I am disabled and slow. Ever since I had my son, I am more moviated,on the go,constantly doing things w him,walks,feedings,playing outside,etc. I never had a break from Cristian,until about 3 weeks ago,when I was in CA visiting,I left w my sister for 3 hours shopping while mom was watching him. I felt weird w.o him being by me,because I always bought him w me everywheres! The bashing quit once they saw that I was ready to be a mom,and I can say that I am a proud mommy. He changed my life!!
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Kreeesta
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| August 17th, 2008 at 12:12 AM |
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Okay. I'm not talking shit honestly, but most people who plan on having a baby at the age of 16-17 don't end up doing the best for their children. I don't know how you raise your child, I don't know anything about you. But, normally, people wait until they graduate from highschool, maybe go to college, get a good paying job, and are in a stable environment [not their parents house] to live, before the decide on having a child. You know, because in the long run it's better for the child, because young mothers usually live a stressful life and in that case so doesn't the baby and or child.
That's why people would assume what they had assume.
Again, I have no idea how your baby is raise, what you do, or how things will end up, and neither does any body else. So we SHOULD stay out of your IRL because this is just OTI. Nothing special...
just don't take everything so seriously on this site, stupid things get said, and you just need to learn to get over it and move on. Act like it never happened.
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Truculent
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| August 17th, 2008 at 12:51 AM |
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Originally posted by Kreeesta
Okay. I'm not talking shit honestly, but most people who plan on having a baby at the age of 16-17 don't end up doing the best for their children. I don't know how you raise your child, I don't know anything about you. But, normally, people wait until they graduate from highschool, maybe go to college, get a good paying job, and are in a stable environment [not their parents house] to live, before the decide on having a child. You know, because in the long run it's better for the child, because young mothers usually live a stressful life and in that case so doesn't the baby and or child.
That's why people would assume what they had assume.
Again, I have no idea how your baby is raise, what you do, or how things will end up, and neither does any body else. So we SHOULD stay out of your IRL because this is just OTI. Nothing special...
just don't take everything so seriously on this site, stupid things get said, and you just need to learn to get over it and move on. Act like it never happened.
/claps
well said.
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| August 17th, 2008 at 1:12 AM |
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Do I think you're old enough to have a child? Honestly, no.
But frankly age isn't that much of a factor. The only thing that matters is that you love your child, and the fact that you do... proves you can raise it.
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| August 17th, 2008 at 1:19 AM |
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Ps. Those who say love can't do it, or want to debate me on it, fuck off. A mothers love is more powerful than anything, proof of that is my own mother. Beaten, raped, poor, single, yet she still procduced 3 amazing men, whom are all Marines.
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| August 17th, 2008 at 1:23 AM |
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:/. They'd find a way.
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| August 17th, 2008 at 1:28 AM |
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If you really loved your son, you wouldn't have typed this. This isn't the way to show that you care or even love someone or something. All this shows is that you are still immature and incapable of just letting things go. Nothing good will come of you debating with idiots online, or even offline for that matter.
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mafia
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| August 18th, 2008 at 1:46 PM |
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Originally posted by Kreeesta
Okay. I'm not talking shit honestly, but most people who plan on having a baby at the age of 16-17 don't end up doing the best for their children. I don't know how you raise your child, I don't know anything about you. But, normally, people wait until they graduate from highschool, maybe go to college, get a good paying job, and are in a stable environment [not their parents house] to live, before the decide on having a child. You know, because in the long run it's better for the child, because young mothers usually live a stressful life and in that case so doesn't the baby and or child.
That's why people would assume what they had assume.
Again, I have no idea how your baby is raise, what you do, or how things will end up, and neither does any body else. So we SHOULD stay out of your IRL because this is just OTI. Nothing special...
just don't take everything so seriously on this site, stupid things get said, and you just need to learn to get over it and move on. Act like it never happened.
yeah, true...
But I already graduated High school, and I'm in college.
I have a job, but i don't spend too much time away from him...just cause I don't like to.
To be honest, I think I am doing a pretty good job.
And it'll only get better.
The only reason why I made this thread was cause I was mad at someone at the time, knowing he might have seen it...
BTW he apologized, so it wasn't a total waste of writing it.
and boo boo, I know you weren't trying to offend me but dude...you're a jackass.
Just cause I wrote it doesn't mean shit.
so, shut up....
anyways.
yeah.
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