marriage before baby?

September 18th, 2008 at 2:57 AM

Then it was a misunderstanding that just needed clarification, not a snotty remark. That only leads to more and more drama. Hence, anything we've said to each other.

September 18th, 2008 at 2:59 AM

Clarified.

September 18th, 2008 at 3:09 AM

lol, okay

let's let someone who can't even buy her own cigs comprehend some very simple readings for you two

amber says : one should ALWAYS get married before thinking about having baby. (but she gives it as hypothetical advice, which is the main point)
krysta says : she doesn't have the choice because she's already pregnant. (which is understandable but amber wasn't exactly directly speaking about cora's current situation in the statement you were addressing)
amber says : she's pregnant already so they're faced with the choice to marry (which is also understandable but it doesn't directly correlate with the hypothetical advice you left for cora about getting pregnant before marriage)

anywho, you both are being quite ambiguous and not exactly reading in between the lines and trying to fight and yes, i know this is a run on sentence.

September 18th, 2008 at 3:10 AM

ugh
i typed all that out and i see you guys have already solved the problem

loll

September 18th, 2008 at 3:11 AM

Originally posted by Tempest

Clarified.

September 18th, 2008 at 3:13 AM

Originally posted by fairy

ugh
i typed all that out and i see you guys have already solved the problem

loll

September 20th, 2008 at 12:15 AM

If you're not married, you have the baby, and he realises it's work and something he doesn't want to be a part of it will be easier for him to leave.

October 13th, 2008 at 11:58 AM

I would rather be married & then have a baby.
But if I got pregnant, I wouldn't just get married because I was having a baby.

October 13th, 2008 at 12:02 PM

I had a baby or was preggo b4 i got married it we were just fine!

October 13th, 2008 at 12:03 PM

I personally won't get pregnant until I'm married. But if you're already pregnant, no point in rushing the marriage.

October 13th, 2008 at 12:04 PM

Get married before you have the baby...or don't.
It's not like God's going to send you to hell if you don't get married; I mean, you're already spending eternity in either eternal hellfire or purgatory, so it's whatever.
/sarcasm
I say wait until you get to know one another better before making any decision of this magnitude. If he's man enough to get you knocked up (pardon my choice of words) and he's still around, that counts for something, right? I'm just saying make sure the car drives like a dream before you sign the form.